Dating physical appearance
I assume that a lot of men (but not all) may be turned off when they see that I do not have a perfect “10” figure, and I do not want to mislead anyone by not sharing my photo until way in to the communication stages.
But at the same time I am afraid that a lot of men will close me out from the beginning. I am a really good person with a lot of love to share.
Warren, I consider myself a healthy, attractive woman, but I am also on the heavier side. Warren, I consider myself a healthy, attractive woman, but I am also on the heavier side.
I assume that a lot of men may be turned off when they see that I do not have a perfect figure. It has been a long time since I have put myself out there to date, and I find myself extremely self-conscious.
In one study men who were young adults dated women who were an average of 1.04 years younger, middle aged men dated women who were 4.98 years younger, and older men dated women an average of 9.99 years younger (Alterovitz & Mendelsohn, 2009).
These results support the idea that women think that they need to look as young and beautiful as possible in order to attract a man.
What is attractive to one person may be unattractive to another.
Think about that as you trust God to lead your to your Christian mate.
Men were also more likely than women to lie about or at least misrepresent their interests on the profile (Whitty, M. Men with higher levels of education and that have a high occupational standing are viewed as better able to provide for his family (Geary, Vigil, & Byrd-Craven, 2009).
Men also lie about characteristics potential mates would find attractive, such as their height.
Women tend to desire men who have a high socioeconomic status; which are usually older men.
Therefore, when it comes to online dating, men find it acceptable to lie about their status such as occupation, education, and relationship status (Toma et al., 2008). Evolutionary theory supports this common deception by suggesting that the characteristics that women view as desirable are the ones that can support them and their children.