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A reporter asked the eloquent mountaineer why, after two deadly failures, he would try to climb Mount Everest yet again.George Mallory responded: Playing hard to get is the oldest dating strategy in the book.On behalf of the lesbian community, I would like to say “Bye Felicia” to this lot until they get over their shit and stop putting it on us. While love has no boundaries, horizons do not matter too.I’ve written about lesbophobia before, but focused more on lesbophobia from heterosexual men than the internalized lesbophobia gay women often experience. Basically, I believe that women who almost solely pursue straight women do so because they believe straight women are better than gay women. If you read this, think “but I am special” and continue to date a straight girl: good luck. They excuse this by saying that lesbian or bisexual women just aren’t hot enough, or they don’t experience a connection, or we’re crazy, catty, did I mention not hot enough? When a lesbian says she doesn’t like lesbians, it means she doesn’t like herself.
Bois, studs, anyone who has lingering feelings of inadequacy towards men; these are the misguided souls who get their rocks off by “flipping.” These women usually present themselves as cocky lotharios and treat women as potential arm candy, not equal partners.For feminine lesbians whose gender presentation isn’t masculine enough to entice the true straight girl, this is extra frustrating. You are worthy of real love with someone who is attracted to you for all the right reasons. Women tend to get the two mixed up, but if you’re going to dip a toe in the straight girl pool, you better have a solid grasp on that terribly important distinction.I don’t have a scathing dismissal for this group of lesbians because I have too much empathy. I get what it means to be gay, lonely, and truly alone. Otherwise, you’re submitting to delusion and setting yourself up for disappointment. We prioritize our partner’s pleasure, last a long ass time, and know how to give that good head.Multiple orgasms on the regular are heady motivation for even the most hetero lady.